Happy Father’s Day!

Posted by T. Greg Doucette on Jun 20, 2010 in Randomness | Subscribe

Not sure if we have any fathers who read law:/dev/null, but if there are a happy Father’s Day to you! :)

This is a weird holiday for me, has been for awhile. I’m a father in the definitional sense — Son of TDot turns 12 years old next month — and because of that some of my friends will send me text messages or give me a call with well wishes. But I also don’t play any meaningful role in his life1 so today isn’t really meant for people like me.

It does remind me, though, how traditional the “nontraditional” has gotten. I’ve never met my biological father, and was adopted by my dad when my parents got married… but spent a majority of my life growing up living with Nan & Pops. Even though Son of TDot knows who I am in an abstract way, he was adopted when his mom got married too. I know a number of colleagues with two fathers, both in the “my mom got divorced and remarried” sense and the “my parents are gay” sense. I know a larger number with no father in the picture at all, raised by single moms filling both the mother and father roles. And I know folks who were/are foster children, and others raised by their grandparents. The list goes on.

It’s those folks who are supposed to get recognized today. So if you’re a father, a grandfather, a stepfather, an adoptive father, a single mom filling in as a father, or anyone else holding that role in a family, I hope you have a very happy Father’s Day! :D

And to the rest of you, have a great night :)

  1. I’ll spare you the details and attendant documentation; suffice to say I acceded to what I was told would be best for him despite regretting doing so most of the 10 years since. []

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2 Comments

Lotta
Jun 24, 2010 at 11:41 PM

hey, just wanted to say that I feel bad for you that you haven’t been able to play a bigger part in your son’s life, and that I hope when he gets a little older, he’ll want to get to know you.


 
TDot
Jun 25, 2010 at 2:08 AM

Thank you Lotta, I hope so too :) That very thought was actually one of the main reasons I focused so much on getting back into college after I dropped out — didn’t want him to seek me out and discover I was a bum :beatup:


 

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